It’s hard for me to believe I’ve only been home for ten days. In the way of all good adventures, the camino already feels like it is fading into ‘long-long-ago-in-a-land-far-away’ status. I am still thinking of random little things on an hourly basis – that awful albergue I stayed out just outside of Leon, the little cafe where Gonzalo, Daphne, Silvana and I stopped for our fourth (or fifth?) Sunday break and I quite happily laid on the side of the road with my legs up against the wall, and the picture perfect house on the hill that Egil and I saw on our way into Villafranca.
And of course, if I am lucky enough to find anyone who will listen, I can dig up a grizillion more memories and talk them into a coma on all things camino-related. Quite a few times I have been asked the generic question, ‘How was it?’ and have found myself struggling to answer. It was amazing. It was a privilege to be able to take that amount of time out to do something so self-indulgent. It was hard. It was awful. It was fun. It was incredible. It was all of these things and more … so how on earth am I going to sum the whole experience up in the time it takes someone to glaze over and start looking for something else to talk about?
A few people have asked me if I learned anything on the camino, or if I am going to make any major life changes as a result (my poor sister was quite disappointed I didn’t come home with a burning desire to have a baby on day one). All I can say in response is that I do feel a lot calmer, a lot more centred and the tiniest bit clearer about what I want (and don’t want) from life. Though please don’t ask me what that is. Still, in an effort to keep pace the social media format du jour, am going to have an attempt at a list of my top ten insights from the camino. So, in no particular order …
1. People are amazing. Or, at least most of them are. While the scenery, the physical challenge and the personal headspace were all a big part of the camino, it was the conversations along the way that really made the whole experience. I made some surprising connections with people I wouldn’t normally have engaged with, and equally was left flat by a few I gravitated toward just because they were ‘my type’ of people. I would like to think that in future I will give people more of a chance, seek out more positive people and recognise a little quicker when I am spending too much time with people who sap my energy.
2. I prefer my apples sliced. OK, so this may sound ridiculous, but at the grand old age of 41 it was a pleasant surprise to learn a load of small things like this about myself that I didn’t know before. And yes, in this instance, it may be that I just enjoyed using a Swiss army knife on a daily basis (who wouldn’t?) but I do now take great pleasure in slicing my apples before I tuck in.
3. Faster isn’t always better. Ian and I have regular debates on this subject, so I guess I knew this already, but the key thing about walking the camino is that it is a slow way to travel. Very slow at times. I wasted a lot of headspace early on calculating my average speed how far I could get in a day (yes, I am still a maths geek at heart) but I know now that the bits I remember most are the times I stopped in a field for a chillax, sat by a stream or had a little nap under a tree – not the times I managed to get my average speed above 6kmph.
4. I eat more than I need to. Again, I guess I knew this already, but I did feel while I was walking I was much more in touch with what my body needed. OK, so it probably didn’t need all of those post walk beers, or that extra two or three glasses of wine on some evenings, but for the most part I did only eat when I was hungry and despite the seven or eight hours of exercise I was doing, that was surprisingly little. I also had a tiny percentage of the sugar I usually have, so am now officially jumping on the current sugar-is-the-devil bandwagon. I think I lost around 10kg on the camino (though guessing it was more than this before the Santiago eating and drinking extravaganza) and obviously I feel a lot better for it … .
5. I need to give myself some regular time-out. Whether it be yoga, meditation or just long walks by myself (once I can get my head around the idea of putting my walking boots on again), I need some to build some regular quiet time into my life. If I think about the camino as being a massive mental spring clean, this will be the regular weekly top-ups to keep my mental filing system under control.
6. I have an amazingly supportive group of family and friends. I know you are all scattered around the world, but I am very grateful for all of your emails, comments and text messages that gave me encouragement along the way. So for this, and for being part of my life in general, I want to once again say thank you to all of the excellent people in my life. The efforts Ian has gone to in welcoming me back and helping me acclimatise have been phenomenal – through pedicures, articles in our local parish magazine and even a lotvely little welcome back gathering of a few of our nearest and dearest … it has been outstanding and has really helped with the culture shock.
7. The one about work life balance. You know, the commitment everyone who works too many hours makes after coming back from a great holiday. I dipped my toe in the water at work on Friday (easing myself in gently) and was a little taken aback by the stress levels. Not sure if that is normal and I am just out of touch with it all or if things are a bit tense at present, but I do have so much I want to do with my life that isn’t work related, so the ‘fewer things better’ mantra will be making a comeback.
8. There is so much more that I want to learn about the world. I am not sure what or how, or when, but I have come back with a burning desire to up the learning curve again, so am on the hunt for something new to try, learn or do – will see how this pans out.
9. I need to look after my feet. And the rest of my body for that matter. I do take it for granted that my body will continue to do what it does without complaint Having had to slow myself down on the camino because my body wasn’t as capable as my brain believed it to be was very hard for my competitive self, so have realised I need to invest a little more time and effort into looking after myself if I am going to continue having adventures for the foreseeable future.
10. 800km is a really long way. No really, it is. A very long way.



















